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By: The Dana Files » It Happens Every Time, But This Day Is Different

The Dana Files » It Happens Every Time, But This Day Is Different — Thu, 16 Oct 2008 21:40:56 +0000

[...] last few months have been miserable. I’ve said it all before. I don’t want to rehash all the emotions, but it’s constantly on my mind, this baby [...]

By: Liz@thisfullhouse

Liz@thisfullhouse — Sun, 12 Oct 2008 05:19:04 +0000

**more hugs** Liz@thisfullhouses last blog post..When A Mommyblogger Goes Hollywood, Puke Happens, No Doubt!

By: Ashley

Ashley — Thu, 09 Oct 2008 15:44:40 +0000

Oh, sweetie. I want to drive up there just to give you a bear hug. Damn it. I’m thinking about you.

By: Amy

Amy — Wed, 08 Oct 2008 20:48:35 +0000

I know exactly what you're going through. My husband and I have tried to get pregnant for two years. We had many painful tests and surgeries. We ultimately decided to adopt, but we still have people say things to me if they notice I'm not drinking wine at dinner or when I say I'm tired. It gets old. Just know that there are others out there who know what you are going through. It does get better. Amys last blog post..Pumpkin Squares

By: Dana

Dana — Wed, 08 Oct 2008 14:21:25 +0000

Oh Dana, I sometimes think secondary IF is worse than primary. When we tried I didn’t know how it felt to carry a baby, to give birth or see their fingers and toes the first time. I longed for that. With secondary you know it and I think it brings the hurt into sharper focus.

It doesn’t always just get better. I had to stop and find other things for it to feel better each month. But the hurt didn’t go away all the time. Baby showers, stories of babies being left. It all hurt so much.

Sort of depressing as a response but sometimes to just know that it’s ok to want to scream at the moon and run away for a weekend to have a pity party is not only ok but so normal helps.

Danas last blog post..And some face time

By: Fat Chick

Fat Chick — Wed, 08 Oct 2008 13:50:12 +0000

((HUGS)) I wish there were something I could say/do to make things better for you. Unfortunately there is not. So, allow me to offer you the one thing I can ((HUGS)). ~ FC Fat Chicks last blog post..New To Work

By: Headless Mom

Headless Mom — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 21:25:21 +0000

(((hugs))) I don't know how this feels, but know that I feel crappy for you. I know that there is nothing I can say. Just hugs. Headless Moms last blog post..BFL-WEEK 5

By: feefifoto

feefifoto — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 19:20:07 +0000

Oh, I am SO sorry for your sadness. People can say such insensitive things and there's really nothing correct to say to people fighting infertility than "I'm terribly sorry." I hope you can feel better soon. feefifotos last blog post..When I Have Nothing New To Say, I Repeat Myself

By: PunditMom

PunditMom — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 16:34:51 +0000

I’m so sorry. I have been there and know it is difficult, especially the comments about ‘just relax, it will happen.’ We ultimately decided to adopt … if we hadn’t, but this is such a individual decision. Thinking about you here.

PunditMoms last blog post..Why the Keating Five is More than Relevant

By: Sarah, Goon Squad Sarah

Sarah, Goon Squad Sarah — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 15:35:45 +0000

**hugs** Sarah, Goon Squad Sarahs last blog post..These Germs Are Making Me a Bad Friend