Comments on: Sadness, Anger, Frustration: An Update, Comments Open http://thedanafiles.com/2008/05/20/sadness-anger-frustration/ Where Current Events Aren't Clouded By Baby Powder Sun, 28 Feb 2010 16:50:48 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: The Dana Files » It Happens Every Time, But This Day Is Different http://thedanafiles.com/2008/05/20/sadness-anger-frustration/comment-page-1/#comment-27318 The Dana Files » It Happens Every Time, But This Day Is Different Thu, 16 Oct 2008 21:52:57 +0000 http://thedanafiles.com/?p=865#comment-27318 [...] the devastation and disappointment set in.  The crying ensues.  The frustration and anger sweep in and take over.  The bitter jealousy follows closely behind.  The vicious cycle continues [...] [...] the devastation and disappointment set in.  The crying ensues.  The frustration and anger sweep in and take over.  The bitter jealousy follows closely behind.  The vicious cycle continues [...]

]]> By: Nicole http://thedanafiles.com/2008/05/20/sadness-anger-frustration/comment-page-1/#comment-26352 Nicole Sat, 07 Jun 2008 21:13:21 +0000 http://thedanafiles.com/?p=865#comment-26352 We were TTC for 8 years before finally successfully giving birth. I endured a lot of anguish along the way and have often tried to blog but it is difficult. I applaud your ability to lay it out for everyone to hear and help. Just know that you're not alone. You can blog about it when you need to or you can email myself (or any of the other caring women) when you need to vent a little more privately. Nicoles last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SahmRamblings/~3/304535268/upgrading-my-thumb.html" rel="nofollow">Upgrading My Thumb</a> We were TTC for 8 years before finally successfully giving birth. I endured a lot of anguish along the way and have often tried to blog but it is difficult. I applaud your ability to lay it out for everyone to hear and help.

Just know that you’re not alone. You can blog about it when you need to or you can email myself (or any of the other caring women) when you need to vent a little more privately.

Nicoles last blog post..Upgrading My Thumb

]]> By: Leslie http://thedanafiles.com/2008/05/20/sadness-anger-frustration/comment-page-1/#comment-26262 Leslie Sat, 24 May 2008 13:00:59 +0000 http://thedanafiles.com/?p=865#comment-26262 Dana, I'm so sorry. Dave and I went through months of trying and a miscarriage before we got Lucy. I know it's agonizing right now, but when you do get pregnant (and I have faith that you will), I suspect that you'll feel that the timing was just right. Things have a way of working out. Dana, I’m so sorry.

Dave and I went through months of trying and a miscarriage before we got Lucy. I know it’s agonizing right now, but when you do get pregnant (and I have faith that you will), I suspect that you’ll feel that the timing was just right. Things have a way of working out.

]]> By: Christina http://thedanafiles.com/2008/05/20/sadness-anger-frustration/comment-page-1/#comment-26260 Christina Fri, 23 May 2008 02:39:18 +0000 http://thedanafiles.com/?p=865#comment-26260 Oh, Dana, I'm so sorry for everything you're going through. It sounds like you're doing everything right, and yet there is always that extra factor we seem to have no control over. It's frustrating. I can't even begin to know what it must be like, but I hope that soon you'll be able to get pregnant again. Christinas last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/AMommyStory/~3/295508301/birthday-party-quandary.html" rel="nofollow">A Birthday Party Quandary</a> Oh, Dana, I’m so sorry for everything you’re going through. It sounds like you’re doing everything right, and yet there is always that extra factor we seem to have no control over. It’s frustrating.

I can’t even begin to know what it must be like, but I hope that soon you’ll be able to get pregnant again.

Christinas last blog post..A Birthday Party Quandary

]]> By: Elizabeth http://thedanafiles.com/2008/05/20/sadness-anger-frustration/comment-page-1/#comment-26259 Elizabeth Fri, 23 May 2008 02:38:15 +0000 http://thedanafiles.com/?p=865#comment-26259 Sweetie, I just want you to know that I am here for you. I know you are starting a new job and things are going to be busy for a while, but if you have a minute and need to chat, I'm a really good listener :) love you bunches! Elizabeths last blog post..<a href="http://table4five.net/2008/05/22/photos-and-muppets-and-minivans-oh-my/" rel="nofollow">Photos and Muppets and Minivans, oh my.</a> Sweetie, I just want you to know that I am here for you. I know you are starting a new job and things are going to be busy for a while, but if you have a minute and need to chat, I’m a really good listener :) love you bunches!

Elizabeths last blog post..Photos and Muppets and Minivans, oh my.

]]> By: Roxanne http://thedanafiles.com/2008/05/20/sadness-anger-frustration/comment-page-1/#comment-26256 Roxanne Thu, 22 May 2008 21:01:12 +0000 http://thedanafiles.com/?p=865#comment-26256 Hugs to you, Dana. I'm going through my own crisis right now, too, as I try to heal from the vasectomy my husband had last summer (against my wishes). Sure, I have a lot of kids already, but it still hurts to hear that my friends are pregnant when I never will be again. I want another baby so badly that it hurts. If it helps to talk about your pain, then do it! This is your blog, and as you can see, others want to help you feel better. I hope you get some good news soon! Roxannes last blog post..<a href="http://ninebabies.blogspot.com/2008/05/road-to-notre-dame.html" rel="nofollow">The road to Notre Dame</a> Hugs to you, Dana. I’m going through my own crisis right now, too, as I try to heal from the vasectomy my husband had last summer (against my wishes). Sure, I have a lot of kids already, but it still hurts to hear that my friends are pregnant when I never will be again. I want another baby so badly that it hurts.

If it helps to talk about your pain, then do it! This is your blog, and as you can see, others want to help you feel better.

I hope you get some good news soon!

Roxannes last blog post..The road to Notre Dame

]]> By: Wisconsin Mommy http://thedanafiles.com/2008/05/20/sadness-anger-frustration/comment-page-1/#comment-26255 Wisconsin Mommy Thu, 22 May 2008 19:22:42 +0000 http://thedanafiles.com/?p=865#comment-26255 Hang in there and don't ever apologize for how you feel. You are perfectly normal for feeling that way and trying to stifle it just makes it worse. I hope you have good news soon! Wisconsin Mommys last blog post..<a href="http://wisconsinmommy.blogspot.com/2008/05/eeeek.html" rel="nofollow">Eeeek!</a> Hang in there and don’t ever apologize for how you feel. You are perfectly normal for feeling that way and trying to stifle it just makes it worse.

I hope you have good news soon!

Wisconsin Mommys last blog post..Eeeek!

]]> By: dana http://thedanafiles.com/2008/05/20/sadness-anger-frustration/comment-page-1/#comment-26254 dana Thu, 22 May 2008 13:24:34 +0000 http://thedanafiles.com/?p=865#comment-26254 LC, thank you. That does give me hope. Believe me. We tried a few years after Dawson was born, but the doctor advised me to wait because of other reproductive issues I was having at that time. Lisa (MOB), I'm sad that you have gone through this same situation. But selfishly, it's nice to know you understand. -hugs- I'll keep the faith for you. :) WH, thank you! -hugs- danas last blog post..<a href="http://thedanafiles.com/2008/05/21/the-working-womans-pregnancy-book/" rel="nofollow">The Working Woman’s Pregnancy Book</a> LC, thank you. That does give me hope. Believe me. We tried a few years after Dawson was born, but the doctor advised me to wait because of other reproductive issues I was having at that time.

Lisa (MOB), I’m sad that you have gone through this same situation. But selfishly, it’s nice to know you understand. -hugs- I’ll keep the faith for you. :)

WH, thank you! -hugs-

danas last blog post..The Working Woman’s Pregnancy Book

]]> By: Wifey's House http://thedanafiles.com/2008/05/20/sadness-anger-frustration/comment-page-1/#comment-26253 Wifey's House Thu, 22 May 2008 00:53:40 +0000 http://thedanafiles.com/?p=865#comment-26253 Hang in there! It sucks and you're allowed to feel that way - smiles! Vent, then try to stay positive and pray for the best! Wifey's Houses last blog post..<a href="http://wifeyshouse.blogspot.com/2008/05/sexiest-thing-about-your-husband.html" rel="nofollow">The Sexiest Thing About Your Husband</a> Hang in there! It sucks and you’re allowed to feel that way – smiles! Vent, then try to stay positive and pray for the best!

Wifey’s Houses last blog post..The Sexiest Thing About Your Husband

]]> By: motherofbun http://thedanafiles.com/2008/05/20/sadness-anger-frustration/comment-page-1/#comment-26251 motherofbun Wed, 21 May 2008 19:29:33 +0000 http://thedanafiles.com/?p=865#comment-26251 Oh Dana. I know how you feel. (This would be why I don't hold babies anymore. It hurts my heart too much.) I completely understand. You are genuinely happy for a friend or family member who announces their pregnancy. But you start to wonder when your turn is coming. It is frustrating and heartbreaking. I don't know if we'll have more. I doubt it, due to not just infertility but other issues. But I'm still cheering you on and am hoping you find yourself with a healthy little baby within the next year or two. motherofbuns last blog post..<a href="http://midwesternmommy.com/2008/05/20/frogs-snails-and-puppy-dog-tails/" rel="nofollow">Of mice and meat heads</a> Oh Dana. I know how you feel. (This would be why I don’t hold babies anymore. It hurts my heart too much.) I completely understand. You are genuinely happy for a friend or family member who announces their pregnancy. But you start to wonder when your turn is coming. It is frustrating and heartbreaking.

I don’t know if we’ll have more. I doubt it, due to not just infertility but other issues. But I’m still cheering you on and am hoping you find yourself with a healthy little baby within the next year or two.

motherofbuns last blog post..Of mice and meat heads

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