May 2, 2008
Apparently I Just Need More “Training”
I’m pissed off. No, I’m furious. I’m extremely angry at John McCain. I wanted to tackle this topic last week but I was seething after reading this:
Republican Sen. John McCain, campaigning through poverty-stricken cities and towns, said Wednesday he opposes a Senate bill that seeks equal pay for women because it would lead to more lawsuits.
Senate Republicans killed the bill on a 56-42 vote Wednesday night. Majority Leader Harry Reid, D-Nev., had delayed the vote to give McCain’s Democratic rivals, Sens. Hillary Rodham Clinton and Barack Obama, time to return to Washington to support the measure, which would make it easier for women to sue their employers for pay discrimination.
McCain skipped the vote to campaign in New Orleans.
Yes. You read that correctly. John McCain skipped this important vote because he was campaigning.
I have been sputtering about this for days. It’s just another piece of evidence that proves that Republicans do not care about women like they say they do. I’ve always wondered why women my age are mostly Democrats and I think I figured it out. The Democrats actually give a damn about the rights of women. And while I may disagree with abortion as a “reproductive right” I do understand why so many women vote Left.
The GOP is out of touch with reality. They are perfectly content on believing that a woman’s “place” is in the home. Never mind that many women choose to be home with their children. So says McCain, “They [women] need the education and training, particularly since more and more women are heads of their households, as much or more than anybody else, and it’s hard for them to leave their families when they don’t have somebody to take care of them.”
This remark just doesn’t make sense to me. I can’t see the correlation between women finding it difficult to leave their families to go to work and pay inequality.
When I worked outside the home I struggled with “mom guilt”. It was hard to take my son to daycare each day, without feeling as though someone else was raising my child. But my family needed my income to make ends meet, and I actually liked working. It wasn’t the worst thing I could be doing. But just because I found it difficult to be a mother and an employee, does that mean I shouldn’t be upset that my male co-workers, with the same qualifications, and the same job training, received a higher salary than I did?
And what about the women who are college graduates, educated women with pertinent job training? Do they need more training and education to get paid equally? If a woman does the same work as a man, and has the same qualifications, education and work experience as that man, why is she paid less? Does that seem fair? Because the man has a penis he automatically gets a salary increase? Is he paid based on testosterone? Does producing estrogen automatically knock a woman’s wage down?
It’s true, more women are the heads of their households. More women control the purse strings. More women are in charge of family decisions. More women have greater influence in matters of business. It’s also safe to say that women are better able to influence other women on how to vote in this coming election. But the one area where women are jipped is in salaries. We are still treated as second class citizens.
Why are we treated so unfairly? Is it because we tend to be more nurturing? Because we are partners, wives and mothers? Because we have vaginas? That’s it, isn’t it? Men are afraid of the power of the va-jay-jay so to punish us, we get paid less money so they can still feel in control. On top. Like they have more authority.
I’ve got a vagina that says these men better use their salary boosts to buy protection for their man parts, you know, just in case millions of angry women can’t fight the urge to kick them in the balls.
From Comedy Central’s Indecision 2008:
It’s men like John McCain that make it impossible for women to escape these stereotypes. (I’ve found another reason to be glad I didn’t vote for McCain in the Wisconsin primary.)
**Cross-posted at Mommybloggers.
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May 3rd, 2008 at 10:25 am, Liz Says:
Cheese and rice, woman [slams hand on kitchen table] balls to the walls, gentlemen. Moms are pissed and posts like this SHOULD make the McCain campers tremble.
You have a way with getting right to the heart of the matter.
Mine is bursting with pride - you make me proud to be a woman and I am honored to have you as a friend!
May 3rd, 2008 at 10:58 am, Dana Says:
I can only hope that the McCain camp will take notice, but I doubt it.
May 6th, 2008 at 9:24 am, Roxanne Says:
That’s a great post!
I was raised Republican, and I didn’t really pay any attention to politics until I married my first husband. He was really surprised to learn my political affiliation, because he knew that I’m a feminist at heart, and he said the GOP didn’t really believe that women were equal. So, I started looking into it, and you know what? He was right! After that, I’ve been a Democrat and have voted that way ever since.
I used to have a lot of respect for John McCain, but lately, he just scares me to death.
As far as the whole equal pay issue is concerned, I’m still really angry about it. Women tend to be more productive in the workplace because we are used to doing more than one thing at a time. We actually get more work done during the average workday than most men do, and they still collect higher paychecks.
It’s enough to make me want to scream in frustration.
June 26th, 2008 at 6:51 pm, Christina West Says:
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