Archive for January, 2008

January 31, 2008

Republican and Democratic Debate Reactions

**Cross-posted from BlogHer.com

I was in elementary school when Ronald Reagan was in office. As a fourth-grader, I cringed when President Reagan appeared on television, interrupting all the regularly scheduled programs to talk about the economy of the United States. It wasn’t until ten years later that I truly understood what the term “Reagan conservative” meant.

Now, as a 29-year-old wife and mother, politics is constantly on my mind. Never before have I been more interested in the government, the upcoming election or the debates, primaries and caucuses that have captured my attention for the last several months.

The first election I was legally able to vote in was 2000. I voted for George W. Bush because I let my disgust for Bill Clinton taint my image of Al Gore. In 2004, I re-elected Bush because I had given birth to my son two months prior and couldn’t elect John Kerry. He didn’t seem concerned with ending abortion. But in the past four years, the Republican party has failed me, and I feel pulled toward the Democratic party instead.

After watching the Republican debate last night presented at the Ronald Reagan Library in Simi Valley, and the Democratic debate tonight at the Kodak Theater in Los Angeles, I’m even more obsessed with choosing a candidate.

Do I stay faithful to my party and endorse a Republican? I dislike John McCain, I don’t care for Mitt Romney, I don’t know enough about Ron Paul, and Mike Huckabee? Don’t get me started on Huckabee.

While watching last night’s debate, it became clear to me that the media is insistent on creating a duel between front-runners McCain and Romney. The first half of the debate was focused on the economy, tax cuts and spending, and the second half was directed more towards the war in Iraq. McCain and Romney spent more time attacking each other’s records, often resorting to trickery to make themselves appear as the better candidate.

Noam Scheiber of The New Republic reports:

McCain also gave one of the most incoherent answers I’ve heard at a presidential debate this campaign season. Asked how he reconciled his initial argument against the 2001 Bush tax cuts, which he said were skewed toward the wealthy, with his more recent argument that he opposed them because spending was out of control, McCain just kind of rambled from talking point to talking point. First he said working class people need help, which is why he favors a stimulus. Then he talked about being a foot-soldier in the Reagan revolution. Then he careered back to reckless spending. Then he said the GOP had lost Congress because of all that spending. It was mush.

Huckabee and Paul did not receive the same question-and-answer time as their competitors, often sitting quietly while McCain and Romney bickered about who supported a timetable for withdrawal from Iraq. Moderator Anderson Cooper promised to shower the candidates with questions, but still John and Mitt ruled the table. When Ron Paul finally had his turn to speak he said [about the bickering], “Who cares? We shouldn’t have gone to Iraq in the first place!”

From PolitiFact.com:

The Arizona senator repeated a charge he made over the weekend, that Romney “said he wanted a timetable” for an Iraq withdrawal. McCain likened Romney’s position to Democrats who were eager to withdraw, while McCain described himself as “out there on the front lines” opposing a U.S. withdrawal.

We examined this claim on Sunday and found McCain didn’t have enough evidence to back up his allegation. We noted in that item that McCain and Romney do seem to have genuine policy differences when it comes to withdrawal. But McCain paraphrases Romney’s statements in a way that leaves voters with the impression that Romney advocates a specific date for withdrawal from Iraq, which he does not.

Sheryn from All Things Anderson writes:

Worst moment of the night:
John McCain and Mitt Romney making faces at each other’s answers like they were in grade school. Let’s face it, my daughter acts more mature than the major presidential candidates. Isn’t that special?

Samantha Sault of The Weekly Standard writes:

The two [Romney and McCain] sparred over each other’s conservative credentials and stances on Iraq. Live-blogging at Pajamas Media, Bridget Johnson reports on the evening’s many “full-body slams.” Chris Cillizza has the video of the Iraq showdown and says, “McCain insisted that Romney had supported a timetable for withdrawal, while Romney bitterly disagreed and accused McCain of ‘the sort of dirty tricks Ronald Reagan would have found reprehensible.’” The showdown resulted in McCain’s major jab at Romney — that McCain led “for patriotism, not for profit.”

So who won? Political Buzz has an opinion:

McCain clearly emerged as the front runner in the race, while Romney tried his darnedest to play catch-up in a fight he’s losing. Nobody blew away the field and both McCain and Romney stumbled, but not enough to make serious waves. Huckabee looked stronger than usual, but he’s too far back and is just blatantly trying to get a slot as McCain’s Veep.

I can’t say that any of the candidates “won” the GOP debate last night, because it was really uneventful. It was the same rhetoric given by the same candidates, proclaiming that they can and will do better for the people of America, and that they will repair the Republican party. Even though Rush Limbaugh thinks Huckabee will destroy the GOP, Huckabee says he wishes Rush loved him as much as he loves Rush. Poor Ron Paul. He’s hanging on by a thread. I give him a lot of credit for perseverance.

The real excitement began with the Democratic debate tonight. As host Wolf Blitzer began his introduction, I felt goose pimples down my spine. “This is the first time a woman and an Africa American are vying for the Democratic nomination.” History in the making.

I watched intently as Barack Obama and Hillary Clinton debated the issues. Although debate isn’t the right word. It was more like a friendly conversation between friends, and I was enthralled by the way the two politely agreed and disagreed with each other. There were moments when I agreed with Barack’s plan to fix the mortgage crisis. There were moments when I disagreed with Hillary’s plan for Immigration reform.

At the end of the debate I realized I’m no closer to choosing a candidate than before. The most difficult debate wasn’t in California. It’s right here in my living room as I debate which party — which candidate, will get my vote.

What did bloggers think about tonight’s debate? BlogHer contributing editor Erin Kotecki Vest highlights some of the reactions. She and Katy Chen covered the debate live from the Kodak Theater (open thread discussion here) and you can watch more videos by clicking these links.

Stay tuned to BlogHer in the days to come. We’re covering this election full force. Super Tuesday, here we come!

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Posted by Dana 11:18 pmBlogHer, News, Politics1 comment  

January 30, 2008

Doo Rag

Potty training is going well ’round these parts. Dawson has the peeing thing down pat. Going No.2 in the potty chair is still not mastered, but I’m praying to God he gets his rear in gear.

Meanwhile, Dawson has found other uses for his Spiderman underpants.

“Wazzzzaaaah!”

Posted by Dana 7:18 amBedlam, Kids These Days, The Doodlebug, The Mommy Files7 comments  

January 29, 2008

Remote Out of Control

The local cable company has a royal service called On Demand that allows one to click buttons on the remote to watch certain shows whenever The Viewer desires.

The Viewer, also known as Dawson the Terrible, dictates which of his twelve favorite shows he’d like to watch on a daily basis.

The Viewer typically starts out with SpongeBob, moves over to Diego, followed by Dora, then The Backyardigans, and finally The Barnyard.

The Viewer has developed extra sensory skills that alert him when a show is in it’s last five minutes and he shouts to his servants, “I want to watch Stawbob again! Servant Number One, put on Strawbob!”

And so, Servant Number One obeys the command and manipulates the remote control to work it’s programming magic.

Last night, Servant Number Two got a wild hair on her ass and scanned the channels while The Viewer was watching SpongeBob at it’s regularly scheduled airtime.

This did not please The Viewer, for he feared the servant would change channels without his consent. The Viewer quickly bolted from his throne and confiscated the remote control from the disobedient servant.

“Do not touch that ‘mote, Servant! The Viewer does not like when thy servant uses the ‘mote with out his permission. Doth thou understandeth?”

“Yes, Master Viewer. Thy remote control is yours,” said Servant Number Two, as she bowed before her pint-sized ruler.

Servant Number Two is planning to accidentally lose the remote control for good.

Posted by Dana 7:12 amKids These Days, The Doodlebug, The Mommy Files6 comments  

January 28, 2008

Booger Fever

Three weeks. That’s how long our house has been filled with sickies. But hopefully (dear God, please!) there is a light at the end of this bacterial tunnel soon.

But anyway, I’m not here to whine about it. I’m here to tell you about the fear my son has about blowing his nose.

At three years old one would think by now that Dawson would have figured out how to blow his snot into a Kleenex. I’ve tried to show him by example, but each time he tries he sucks his nostrils in, and then I get grossed out because I can’t imagine how much snot is stuck up there.

The medicine Dawson has been taking I have been forcing down his throat seems to help clear up the congestion, but still the child won’t place his boogers in a tissue where they belong.

Last night I tried to explain it all again.

“Dawson, honey, let me show you how to do it. Put the kleenex to your nose and blow out. Like this.”

*I snort into a tissue*

“See? Can you do that, sweetie?”

“No, Mumma. Dawson no want to bow my dose.”

“C’mon. At least try it. For me? Please?”

“Nooooo! Dawson no want to bow my dose!!”

“Why not? You can’t let snot hang out all over!”

“Mumma. Dawson said ‘no’!”

“Okay, whatever.”

I began to blow my nose for the 80 millionth time and suddenly Dawson screams, “Stop it! STOP! Mumma, your brain will come out!”

“What? Who told you that?”

“Taylor said her mommy’s brain fall out when she bowed her dose.”

Then it hit me. Taylor’s mother, Dish, is a very good friend of mine who loves to tease her children. She probably told Taylor that boogers are brains to scare the pants off her, which I can see might be funny. But not when my son is the booger king this month.

Looks like my old friend the bulb syringe will have to come out of retirement.

Posted by Dana 7:00 amHealth, Wellness, Fitness, Exercise, Kids These Days, The Doodlebug, The Mommy Files9 comments  

January 27, 2008

Super Dawson

We’ve entered the Super Hero stage and I’m not certain I’m prepared for it.

For several months, Dawson has been running through the house, jumping on bad guys; namely Murphy, our dog, who is the evil “so-so-rear” (sorcerer) from the planet Too Many Legos.

The horrible dragon (Mommy) must be slayed with his magic sword (empty wrapping paper tube). The mean overlord (Daddy) of the Great Blanket Castle (a comforter draped over two kitchen chairs) must be removed from his evil reign.

I’m happy to see that Dawson’s imagination is running wild. He’s brilliantly creating these amazing scenes. I’m not so sure I like being killed fourteen times each day.

“No, Mommy,” he yells. “You have to fall on the floor and die like this!”

I watch and learn as he dramatically drapes himself across the reclining chair and then rolls to the floor.

“Dawson, if I attempt to mimic such stunts, your father will have to call 9-1-1,” I tell him. “Don’t I get a body double for these tricks?”

Then this morning, the demands for a cape began. We were watching the Disney channel and a character named Captain Carlos came on the t.v.

“Mommy, I need to be a Super Dawson,” he said. “And I need a parachute for my back.”

“A parachute?” I asked. “What do you mean?”

“You see right there, on Cap’n Cah-wos. He gots a parachute on his back!”

“Oooh. You mean a cape?” I queried.

“Yeah! A cape! A CAPE!!”

“Okay, Bug. I’ll try to find a cape.”

I grabbed an old receiving blanket and tried to tie it around Dawson’s shoulders. Too short. Next, I tried his favorite blanket and it was too long. I chose an old fitted crib sheet and wrapped it around his shoulders, but I had no way to fasten it. The crying began.

I hit the Internets. Thank the heavens for Google, which led me to this Etsy page. For about $45, Panjo will create a handmade, custom Superhero cape for your child and with the many different fabric choices to pick from, how can you go wrong? Your child’s initial will be lovingly sewn on the back, too.

Now I just need to distract the Doodlebug until it arrives. Super Dawson Patience Powers, activate!

Posted by Dana 9:51 amKids These Days, Shop Til You Drop, The Doodlebug, The Mommy Files7 comments  


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